Tim LaHaye asks the provocative question. But you have to subscribe to find out the answer.
(LaHaye is, of course, best known as the co-author of the Christian science fiction series of post-Armageddon “Left Behind” novels but he is also the author of a mid-seventies marriage manual I happen to have picked up at a flea market once, titled, “How to Be Happy Though Married.” Gotta love that “Though.”)